Teenagers, tell your stories to make aware others!

  💕💕BETWEEN TEEN BIRTHDAYS.....💗💗

Teenagers please tell your stories to make aware others!

'BETWEEN TEEN BIRTHDAYS' 

 IS GOING TO BE A STORY OF

INDIAN TEENGE BOYS AND GIRLS 

SHARING THEIR TEEN LIFE EXPERIENCES.

They had gone through their PUBERTY period,
they faced GROWTH SPURT,
they were VERBALLY-PHYSICALLY & SEXUALLY abused,
they had MOOD swings,
they had EXAMs phobia,

they even passed through DEPRESSION phase,

they were BULLIED,

they had CRUSH and BREEEEEAAAAK--UPs........

they experienced their PHYSICAL development, EMOTIONAL development and REPRODUCTIVE SEXUAL development. they explored their HEALTH & HYGIENE issues..

they all are like you, millions around..

Dear Indian Boys, Girls, Fathers and Mothers,

Your experiences are valuable to understand the feelings, attitude, awareness and the way you handle the situation. It will help others in the form of the book. The identity of yours is not going to be revealed at any stage. So, send your experiences of changes occurred to you during puberty and then after till you became complete Adult, from maybe 10 years to 20 years.

Common to all persons (Boys, Girls, Fathers and Mothers):

1. Your first pimple/acne.

2. Your pubic hair development and first trimming/shaving.
3. Your sudden physical growth, height, weight, appearnce…
4. Your body hair changes.
5. Your opposite gender attraction (infatuation,crush,love).
6. Your experience of sexual abuse Any other experience.

7. Your parent-teenage relationship.

8. Your bullying in school and society.

9. Your depression and loneliness.

10. Your feeling and attitude on masturbation and orgasm.

11. Your verbal,physical, sexual abuse, incest, molest.

From Girls and Mothers :

1. Your first day of first menstruation.
2. Your breast bud and breast development
3. Your feelings, selection, purchase of first Bra
4. Your feeling of sanitary napkin/washable cloth pad

5. Your first pelvic examination

6. Your urinal & vaginal infection.

From Boys and Fathers :

1. Your first ejaculation/ wet dream
2. Your first shave of beard/mustache/pubic hair

3. Your urinal & skin infection.

Any other topics/subjects/issues bothered you during teenage.  

Your stories will help me to create further awareness among teenagers. Stories written by you on teenage emotions, also are requested. I invite your experiences with only age, no toher personal details required, I will weave them into stories with full confidentiality and annonimity. 

Dr Jyot Mohan,  IIM alumni & TEENAGE MENTOR

so submit now through 

email link : docotrjyot@gmail.com

Whatsapp Number : 9978613218

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TEENAGERS, BE AWARE! Tobacco uses are the most preventable cause of Cancer death.

TOBBACCO use is the most preventable cause of death.

TEENAGE where one would like to try out smoking... 

maybe due to PEER PRESSURE!

We ourselves invite painful(CANCER) death early in our life. Cigarette smoking is a major cause of cancers of the lung, larynx, oral cavity, pharynx and esophagus. It is also a contributing cause in the development of cancers of the other parts.  It is easier to detect when it is in the earliest, most treatable stage. If we, ourselves stop smoking and chewing tobacco; the entire tobacco epidemic would virtually disappear in next few generations. The difficulty is that it will take a conscious decision by the youth not to use tobacco in order to achieve the goal of healthy body with good looks. Stained teeth will not be a good to look at your face.

All forms of tobacco contain NICOTINE, it is a natural part of the tobacco leaf. Majority of TEENAGERS, who experiment with tobacco smoking or chewing, may become addictedslowly. In its pure form, nicotine is a strong poison. A small dose of it, injected directly into the bloodstream, can kill a person. Nicotine works on the brain and other parts of the nervous system. Nicotine is absorbed into the bloodstream through the smoke in a smoker's lungs or through the mucous membranes in the mouth for snuff/chew users. Their bloodstream picks it up and it is quickly pumped by the heart right to the brain-all within a few seconds. Nicotine makes the heart beat faster. This, in turn, increases the breathing rate and causes the body to use more oxygen. It can increase blood pressure.

Is your kid PASSIVE smoking with you?

When people smoke tobacco for the FIRST TIME, the nicotine may make them feel sick to their stomach and dizzy. As they use tobacco more often, the unpleasant feelings go away and the tobacco user gets addicted to the nicotine and grows dependent on the mild stimulant effects. Tobacco users find they need more nicotine-and more and more-in order to get the same feeling they received originally. At that point, the person is physically addicted and will only feel comfortable when nicotine is in their system. Of all addictive behaviors, cigarette smoking and Pan / Gutkha chewing, are the one most likely to become established during adolescence. Passive smoking is also dangerous for persons present in that nearby environment, particularly family members, children, friends....

PASSIVE SMOKING IS DANGEROUS TOO

Most tobacco users make several attempts before they successfully quit tobacco use. Withdrawal symptoms (both physical and psychological) can be very challenging and last longer. It may also extends to DRUG ADDICTION in future.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JtQR7t47oWo

Dr. JYOT, TEEN MENTOR

OMG! Crushes are like, the BEST!!! (But Also Super Weird)

OMG! Crushes are like, the BEST!!! 

(But Also Super Weird)

My heart goes.... ohh no....

Okay, so have you ever had just a glance at someone and your stomach does this FLIP FLOP thing? Or 

may be waiting in bus for just the arrival of that someone, may be you have written the name in your  

notebook a million times with little hearts around it? Yeah, that's called a CRUSH 💗💗💗,  and let 

me tell you, it's ROUGH. 

The Land of Butterfly Feelings 💕💕💕

Being a teenager is basically like living in a music video with way more pimples and homework.

Suddenly, EVERYONE seems super attractive, especially THAT person. You know, the one who

makes you forget your notebooks in your classroom and blush like a tomato. It's like your brain

is filled with butterflies having a rave party every time they're around.

Wait, This Isn't Exactly Like the Movies...

Here's the thing: crushes in movies are all sunshine and rainbows. But in real life, they can be

kinda...confusing. Suddenly you care WAY too much about what they think, even if they haven't

even noticed you. And don't even get me started on the stalking – I mean, FOLLOWING – them

on social media and freaking out if they don't like your post. (Don't do that, by the way. It's

creepy.)

Is This Even Love? 💘

Hold up! Before you write your wedding vows in glitter pen, let's take a step back. A crush is

intense, but it's usually based on how someone looks or seems from afar. Real love is about

knowing someone for who they are, even the annoying parts.

So What Do I Do About My Crush?

First, breathe!  DeeeeeeeeP breathe..... 

It's totally normal to feel this way. The HORMONES playing inside youR Body & Minds!!.....

Here are some tips:

● Talk it out: Don't bottle it up in your heart! Tell your Sibling or BFF(duh) or someone you trust (Mother, Bhabhi, Masi,..)...

● Get to know them: Maybe they're actually super nice! Or maybe they listen to Justin

Bieber unironically (shudder).

● Focus on you: Don't let your crush define you. Rock your hobbies, hang with your

squad, and be awesome!

Mom is the best friend!

The Bottom Line :

Crushes are a wild ride, you may not be able to stop, but they can teach you a lot about yourself and what you want in a future life partner (someone who DOESN'T listen to Justin Bieber, hopefully). Enjoy the butterflies,💕💕💕 but remember, YOU are the real star of your own teen movie. Daily look into your mirror and love that person in your mirror!

Enjoy your fantacy....... fly with feelings .... higher and higher....💗💗💗

Teen Antara

QUALITY OF TEACHING, SKILLS DEVELOPMENT NEED OF THE HOUR

 QUALITY OF TEACHING 

vs 

Expensive infrastructure, expensive uniforms, expensive textbooks....

Time has come to review the quality of teaching across India. 

One side government run-free panchayat schools and municipal schools, then the government aided private schools, missionary run convent schools, CBSE, ICSE, IB board schools...

The quality of teaching in expensive infrastructure, expensive uniforms and expensive textbooks also need review. Are these elite schools' students go for NEET JEE EXAMS coaching outside or not?

UNIFORMS wearing TIE, JACKET, BLAZER are not helping much in their brain develiopment for skills. Air-conditioned classroom are also not good for physical health in long run.

Shantiniketan model of Shri Rabindranath Tagore is an example for learning in India. Unfortunately we follow Maqulay model of school education even after 76 years of independence.... GURUKOOL model or say residential school away from main cities and near to nature to be thoght of.

Children need to expose to agriculture, dairy industries and village life also, to know where rual bharat live in and feed us.

How poor and middle class students will get grooming in Panchayat and municipal schools?

State boards, CBSE, ICSE, IB, government schools, Governmanet aided schools, private schools, all should have equal quality of teaching as such.

https://aachiglobalschool.com/blogs/8-different-types-of-education-boards-in-india-2024-cbse-caie-more/

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AUDIO VISUAL ONLINE DISTANCE LEARNING PROCESS

 AUDIO VISUAL ONLINE DISTANCE LEARNING PROCESS FOR FUTURE

interactive-pro-whiteboard-in-the-classroom

Open & Distance Learning ODL MODEL WILL BE THE FUTURE OF EDUCATION IN INDIA.

TEACHERS will have to learn video editing, video making, image and text mixing. 

Black board, green board days will soon be over.... 

White Smart board, computer Internet multimedia presentations will be there to replace stereotypes. ANYTIME, ANYWHERE, ANY SPEED newage learning pedagogy....

One live lecture will be broadcasted over many classrooms in different States of India.  Like DPS (delhi Public School) will have audio visual content creator studio in one of the city. They will transmit lecture to all its school at the same time using internet video conferencin facilities. Local teacher will be only act as a facilitator between all students. Offline recording will be made available from virtual library, so learning will become ANYTIME, ANYWHERE, ANY SPEED....... Students can learn at their own convinience, at their own pace. Frequently asked questions will be availble. New quations and answers can be uploaded. 

Learning process itself will change. School Uniform, Bus services, Running around will take backseat and learning will become more important. ..

TEACHERS PLEASE WAKE UP NOW.. 

OTHERWISE DO NOT ASK....WHO MOVED MY JOB???

Indian teachers have to upgrade and adopt new technologies

CBSE have already initiated for content creating facilities to meet the future changing demand.

https://www.indiatoday.in/education-today/news/story/cbse-launches-advanced-video-recording-studio-to-boost-digital-education-2559178-2024-06-27

SAMSUNG and other suppliers are wotking on whiteboard interactive education solutions.

https://insights.samsung.com/2023/04/04/how-to-integrate-an-interactive-whiteboard-in-the-classroom-qa-with-matt-miller/

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Are our sons and daughters physically fit?

 Are our sons and daughters physically fit?

Parents to become Role Model for Teenagers

Hey parents, How are your children?

- are you focusing on Physical development?

- are you giving QULITY time for emotional development?

- are you understanding the importance of puberty and maturity of reproductive and sexual organs in son as well as daughter?

Parents as well as school education system is responsible for poor health of school children. Sports, athletics and physical activities are lacking in school and in childhood and teenage.

Parents and teachers are focused on 90% plus marks in SSC, HSC, and to clear NEET JEE EXAMS to get admission in medical and engineering colleges.and for that take away time from the lives of school children, mainly teenagers. Schools may not have enough playgrounds and other space to allow sports, atheletics, games...etc..

The teenage years are very important for physical development for boys and girls. Body maturity starts during PUBERTY, but no one understands and take care of... Height and skeleton growth will be only upto 19 years or so. Sexual organs like Scrotum, Penis, Uterus, Ovaries, fallopian tubes, cervix, breasts all will grow during teenage an become mature for reproduction.

I see in my society, parents are lifting school bag of the child from residence to bus stand.. around half kms walking within society, even for children studying in std II and above or say 8 years plus.... Parents pamperrs their children beyond limits. 

Skipping is one activity which can be done alone and daily if you do not have other friends or playground.

Daily running and jogging with parents if possible.

report on adult population physically unfit.

https://www.cnbctv18.com/india/healthcare/half-of-india-adult-population-physically-unfit-says-lancet-study-19433843.htm

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Mission for Self Learning, Peer learning and Group learning.

  Mission for Self Learning, Peer learning and Group learning.

 

Tired of text books study?  WAKE UP!!

Hello Parents and teens !! please, Wake Up... 

Only textbooks and classroom learning of few subjects are not enough.Time and years never comes back.... so utilise wisely... overall personality development and career can be visualised and developed during teenage itself.

Students studying in Std. VI, VII, VIII, IX, X, XI, & XII can work on future long-term requirement of overall personality and their selected career goals. They will learn from early stage througgh self learning, peer leearning and group learning process outside the classrooms. Once they are motivated themselves, learning life skills, professioanl skills, communication skills will become easy. It is a slow but sure proces of grooming YOURSELF.

We would like to create awareness on IMPORTANCE of learning and excelling language Communication Skills for Group Discussion (GD), Personal Interview (PI), Essay writing and Presentation for any entrance test or projects. The skills can only be developed through knowledge based on other reading, writing, observing, listening, participating. These soft skills are a must, even for employability in other services sectors or business.

‘Physical, Emotional & Reproductive developmental issues during Teenage’.

The major physical and reproductive changes (maturity) occur during the growth spurt of Puberty and result into emotional issues and behavior of Adolescence development. Better understanding of biological and psychological growth will help to cope with the developmental phase of teenage.

Our teensNparents counseling and grooming online services for teenage boys and girls is here to help parents and teens. Let us make joint efforts for better PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL & REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH of our teenage children for their bright professional life and happy married life.  Parents and Teachers should also be involved to reach our ultimate objective of Adolescence Education to groom our children with skills. 

Do let me know over Email  to understand self learning, peer learning and group leaning process to groom oneself for future career in life. See the group learning and peer learning process at teensNparents in this video. click on link below:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZQp1mKin8kQ

Dr. Jyot is an alumni of IIM and MSU alumni, He had taken up this mission. Teenage development is also an implementation of his Ph.D. research analysis (2002-06), on ‘Marketing of Adolescence Education’. Teenage Facilitator    Ask Question to: doctorjyot@gmail.com  9978613218  

Miss Apoorva Badge, is our EDITOR and content writer, she is communication skills motivator, content creator and social media marketer. She has done Graduation Fashion Communication 

Miss Varsha Uppula, An IT professional helping us to create website and blogs for teensNparents. Generative AI certified trainer and impart awareness to students.

Parents and teens can ask Question in comment box of every article or join us on WhatsApp numer 9978613218 or join our whatsapp group through request on same number.

Teen students can write articles on teenage related topics and they can make their video article and submit over whatsapp 9978613218 

Shifting Career Options & Expanding potential

 Shifting Career Options & Expanding potential

(During Preteens & Teenage years)

 CONFUSED?

Hi Teeeeeens!!!!,

We all might have dreamt to become someone during chilhood and teenage.... May be Pilot or Teacher or doctor or cricketer or police or dancer or actor.... We had role models in our mind..... And as we were growing,  our dream career options were shifting one by one due to various reasons. Do not get confused, do strenth and weakness analysis for career options in our minds, so that we can work on our weaknesses at the earliest.....

“Shifting Focus” completely revolves around the life of us.  “SHIFTING FOCUS”, changing the decision for career in life. Children in their preteen years aspire to become like their parents or the teacher. While during teenage aspire to become engineers, doctors, cricketers or pilots etc.

However, only few of them end up pursuing their childhood and teenage dreams. Future career choice for life is completely unpredictable.  Students can expand their thoughts, by exploring as much as possible on career options. Nowadays children never settle for one achievement or interest; they always shift their focus, and of course, this will slowly and gradually increase or expand their potential as time pass by.

The focus also shifts due to some financial issues, or unable to get desired marks or due to family and peer pressure, which result into the career selection without the interest. Parents pressure is faced by majority of teenagers.

For instance, a student belonging to a middle-class family may have a passion for art and craft, but his or her parents are worried about the future career and income and decide to opt for career without real interest of the student. The student understands and happily obey the parents to support them financially in future.

However, in doing so, the student’s dreams are sacrificed, it’s no one’s fault; it’s just not the right time to pursue the dreams or hobbies. Others may choose to pursue their passions despite the challenges. However, if one pursues the dream, there will definitely be great career opportunities and satisfaction. Pursuing dreams can be beneficial, but one cannot be sure that it will lead to earning, because, in the end, most people work primarily to earn money and live comfortably.

While there may be great potential, but success not guaranteed, it is a risk. Shifting focus is not inherently wrong; as mentioned above, the middle-class student can still run a business alongside the career admitted in. The shift in focus made here has proven to be very beneficial, as the student can pursue a career and earn as per the professional degree he or she is admitted as well as can also run a side business and can make some extra income and satisfaction. This may gradually improve the potential for success.

Nirja Surati

Love yourself, you are the BEST!

 Love yourself, you are the BEST!

Daily look in the mirror

and say “You are the best”

Hey teeeens!! 
Lots of love 💕💕 & flowers, to my best readers. 

Have you seen the person in your mirror today, who is the best person 💗, you have been meeting every day!

People these days seem very judgmental through physical looks only. Girls and boys are judged more often based on their body shape, size, color, height, etc. It is observed that people do not appreciate the inner beauty of a person; but judge them only by their looks.

It seems as if BODY SHAMING starts from the house itself. A major role in body shaming a child is played by the parents, followed by relatives and the people who stay around. This directly or indirectly leads to social anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and body dysmorphia.

Terms such as  ‘Fatso’, ‘moti,’ ‘patli,’ ‘kaali,’ ‘chhoti,’ ‘golu,’ ‘baby elephant,’ .... etc., are examples of labels of body shaming. The major reason behind this phenomenon is the unrealistic beauty standards perpetuated by representation in movies, TV serials and advertisements. Additionally, some people even believe that the receptionist, Air-hostess, Heroine should be good looking to attract the viewers / customers.  The most demanding is matrimonial match highly dependent on physical looks and color complexion of skin. When someone faces frequent rejections in their career or love life or marriage prospects due to their body and looks, it can lead to depression, loneliness and heartbreak. Additionally, not receiving equal opportunities, despite of being worthy of, can erode their self confidence and contribute to social anxiety.

 While there isn’t a quick fix for body shaming, cultivating a culture that values acceptance, empathy, and understanding can aid in lessening its impact. Few ways to address body shaming include:

1] Daily look into the mirror and say “You’re the BEST” 💗, Love yourself, your complete body is the best gift you have received from God and your parents.

2]  Positive thinking to keep healthy mind in healthy body by proper diet and physical activities. Learn various skills to improve your personality mainly communication .

3] Look at so many Role Models who have reached fame through different skills and profession and not just by physical looks.

4] Families should be the first one to accept the child as she/he is without any labeling.

5] Friends make you feel good, so build good friendship and grow together. Partcipate in various events and competition to make team.

“So please stop body shaming others. It doesn’t look good. Instead, encourage other and spread some positive vibes.”  

“END BODY SHAMING, START EMPOWERING.” 

And, it stars with you, you love yourself first......... be the best friend of the person in your miror.   

Bye dear.......

 

Nirja Surati

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