An Art of Parenting TEENS for Father & Mother

  An Art of Parenting TEENS for Father & Mother,

whose Children are in the age group 11-22 years.

Early Adolescence period: Age Group 11 to14 Years.

1.	All parents should understand that your child is now going to face challenge of changes of PUBERTY very soon. Support him/her through love and care. Give time to open up communication channels for better understanding of each other.
2.	Girls require special care and understanding during onset of their puberty; so parents, specially mother should inform daughter about Menarche/Menstruation periods.
3.	Children may not ask, but parents should create an environment for the healthy discussion and impart information on changes of adolescence. Pubic hair, facial and body hair, pimples, height, breasts, voice, fat and curves,...... need to understand physical growth of various organs of body... outside as well as inside (ovary, falliopian tubes, uterus, cervix, scrotum, testicles, uretha.... urine and vaginal infacetion, skin diseases..), innerwears mainly bra selection is very important.

Late Adolescence period: Age Group 14 to18 Years.

1.	Social and Emotional changes will change the behaviour of adolescents. Adolescents strive to seek acceptance among their age group. Parents can help them by becoming the best friend to them.
2.	The looks will play an effect on their own thinking, so make them love their body; the way it is. Never criticise about any part of their body.
3.	Let the adolescents look at the mirror, till they satisfy themselves. It will develop healthy relationship with their own self. Parents should remember their own teenage days.
4.	TV viewing cannot be stopped, so better encourage to see good programme as well as parents can watch teenage programme to know their taste.
5.	A balanced diet is needed to support the growth during puberty. Parents can cultivate healthy eating habits by practicing. Also encourage participation in sports and physical activities, which will enhance the self-confidence as well as develop good physique.
6.	Exam and study stress to be reduced through adequate sleep and entertainment.

Young Adult period: Age Group 19 to 22 Years.

1.	Parents should understand that feelings for opposite sex will start and cannot be totally ignored. Infutation, crush, attraction, sweet dreams, love etc are part of emotional development. Heterogenous (boyfriend /girlfriend)  friend-circle to be encouraged.
2.	Young adult need little more privacy at house, so do not always doubt them. If possible, enter in their area with their permission.
3.	Parents should know that now they would like to go out with their friends more often than going out with the parents. Do not worry, it is a normal behaviour.
4.	Parents should understand the harmful effects of tobacco on the body, so if possible quit smoking and chewing of tobacco.
5.	Young adult is in search of a personality which he/she can identify with. parents can become their positive role models.
6.	Parents to continue to show love and affection the way they were doing when in early childhood. Appreciate their little achievements in any field. Give adequate time to listen to them. Father and Mother need to take time with their Son and daughter and become the best friend to discuss their personal issues. Dr Jyot Teen mentor

Are Skin-Tight Jeans good for Your Genitals and Skin?

 

Are Tight Jeans Bad for Your Genitals and Skin?

 

How to get rid of a yeast infection naturally. Here are the top 3 ways to have yeast infection relief within an hour.

Stop Wearing Tight Clothes for longer time and during night:

This pertains to the lower half of your body; underwear, tight jeans, tight shorts etc., all of which will suffocate your genital area and allow for yeast to rapidly overgrow. Oxygen is the naturally enemy of anaerobic life forms such as yeast, expose yourself as much as possible early on during a yeast infection and you can cut the infection down by well over half!

Why Tight Jeans Might Be Bad for You?

Fashion motivates youth to wear tight jeans. There has been a lot of talk on, if tight jeans pose a health risk or not. We all know why we do want to wear them and I will not be covering that here. The three reasons that will be discussed are as follows:

1. Suffocate Genitals –

There are different reasons and ways and outcomes for women and men on this.

Let it starts with women. Thrush, also known as a yeast infection, can occur because of your jeans being too tight. When your body is likely to get it, the best way to try and avoid it, is to let your skin breath.

For men, many people have talked about low sperm count. Now there is no scientific proof of this. But it is true that scrotum is out of the main body where sperm gets produced which is at little lower (2 degrees) temperature than the body temperature. So do not try to increase the temperature surrounding the scrotum by wearing tight jeans. Who knows? But if you are worried then take this into consideration.

For both men and women, the genital area generally needs to breath and this is a fact. Do not wear tight jeans all of the time and be aware of the health implications. Wear it for some time. But when at home, in the night please wear loose cloths without underwear.

2. Poor Blood Circulation

Having anything on really tight is just not good for our body and jeans are no exception. Make sure you wear loose clothing no less than tight clothing. Your skin needs to breathe and your blood needs to circulate blood without increasing the blood pressure. You cannot have certain areas of your body deprived of good blood flow. You sometime get temporary paralysis type effects due to poor circulation of blood. When one is sitting on floor for long time, the blood circulation in certain area of legs get affected. As soon as one gets up then, the legs may not get feelings sometime due to poor circulation of blood. That is the reason when you feel giddiness or you become unconscious, one loosens the dress or change into gown.

3. Hurt Your Hips.

This one has been put down because some of us have experienced this personally. After a night out wearing tight jeans, the next day there are bruises on our hips and it takes days, to go away. You can’t put jeans again, for a while and that is not good.

So, there are a few good reasons as to why tight jeans may be not so good. You can make up your own mind on this and can disagree if you want. However, it is always good to be aware of these things whether we like them or not.

KEEP GOOD BLOOD CIRCULATION,

TO EVERY PART OF YOUR BODY 24X7!

Dr Jyot
Teen Mentor

Breast, cyst, tumour, hair development during puberty teenage life

 

Development of breasts during puberty & teenage, cyst, hair growth.

SELF-EXAMINATION of breasts, should be learned by every teenage girl.

Mothers should do self-examination themselves and also teach the daughters on regularly self-examining own breasts, to find out any abnormal growth of Cyst or Tumour in the breast.

If Cyst like growth is found in the breast/s, please do regular check for its growth or its pain. If it is growing and paining, consult the gynaecologist.

Breast self-examination a must

Also, if some few hairs may grow around nipple on areola (darker skin around nipple), which are normal and NOT TO BE SHAVED!

If little fluid comes out sometimes from nipple is also normal. But if it is having foul smell and it is continuous, then consult gynaecologist.

Breast development is very important for teenage girls. It has emotional connection. It has body image connection. It has sexual arousal appeal. It does create confusions with peers and friends due to early or late growth, size of breasts.

The primary function of milk feeding to newborn is accomplished with any size and shape of breasts.

But secondary functions of body image and sex appeal is hyped by media and models and heroines. It is phycological attitude created by media to have bigger and firmer breasts. All sizes and shapes of breasts are normal and can fulfil the primary objective of producing milk for baby after delivery of child.

BREASTS are very important organs in the life of every female, be it a teenager, young one before marriage, or after marriage, after becoming mother of a child, thenafter till you live...!!

Dr Jyot Teen Mentor