Communications skills for Teenagers

  Communication Skills for Teenagers

 

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Hello parents; 

Do you know the “Importance of communication skills during TEENAGE of your child?

Becoming an adult has never been an easy journey. Every kid dream with eyes full of hope to reach for the stars and make their parents proud. However, once the transition phase to teenage begins, they go through a sudden shift on both physical and psychological level. With time, their innocence starts to fade and they start seeing the world and the people around them with new eyes. The kids whose world once revolved around their parents, now find their calling among their peers. They finally realise that the world is a lot bigger than they once thought.

While this change is natural and a necessary part of becoming an adult, more often than not, a lot can go wrong in this phase. For instance, being exposed to bullying, not being able to open up to their closed ones, feelings of inadequacy and isolation, dealing with peer pressure, feelings drawn to the opposite sex and not knowing how to handle it effectively, and the list goes on. The only means to be able to navigate this turbulent TEENAGE time, simply put in one word, is communication. Early intervention in helping the teens work on their communication skills can do wonders in ensuring that they have a bright future in their social as well as professional life.

Here are eight ground-breaking reasons why mastering this life skill can be a game changer for early teens:

1.     Nurture stronger bonds Human beings are social animals.

They crave connection and a sense of belonging as much as food and water. This desire to connect to people beyond their small world begins in childhood and grows overpoweringly during their teens. Developing the right set of communication skills helps teens thrive in their social life by finding like-minded people and developing bonds that stand the test of time. The communication gap caused between parents and teens due to mismatch in thought process also reduces as opening up fosters mutual understanding. This significantly reduces feelings of isolation and increases their overall satisfaction in life.

2.     Boost self-confidence

In early teen years, a volatile mix of peer pressure and insecurities can really send a teen’s confidence flying out of the window. They inadvertently start comparing themselves with their peers on attributes such as looks, height, personality, social status, etc. What these young minds need is a life-saving tool to help them express their unique selves in effective ways. Strong communication skills not only help boost a teen’s self-confidence, but also help them exit the mindset of unhealthy comparison. Additionally, they learn how to address concerns related to these uneasy feelings in a healthy way instead of withdrawing or escaping from them.

3.     Conflict resolution

Conflict is a part and parcel of life. But how teens choose to deal with it makes all the difference. Some teens are naturally vocal and can deal with conflicts head-on, while others are timider and more afraid to even speak up in class. But neither of these approaches can help teens deal with conflicts in a healthy way. A more constructive approach would be practising assertiveness, which only comes with strong communication skills. Assertiveness is about picking your battles and standing up for yourself, if required in a firm but respectful way. For instance, using ‘I’ statements makes the other party understand someone without getting defensive and active listening can make them feel more appreciated.

4.     Reduced anxiety and stress

Teenage is that time of a person’s life when hormones play ‘clash of clans’. While dealing with these newfound heightened feelings, it is only natural for teens to be stressed and overwhelmed. Moreover, hormones such as adrenaline and cortisol keep fluctuating frequently for teenagers and manifest in the form of irritability and mood swings. Hence, strong communication skills not only help them channel such feelings in a healthy way, but also teach them how to candidly talk about these feelings instead of bottling them up. This practice acts as a great stress buster and helps them approach any situation in a calm and logical way.

5.     Develop strong leadership skills

It’s worth wondering that some kids make really good leaders, while the rest of them prefer to be a part of the herd. While there is some truth to being a ‘born leader’ and leadership skills coming naturally to some teens, more often than not, these skills can be honed with practice. For that to happen, developing good communication skills is a great place to start. Being able to communicate your vision can inspire and motivate people to believe in that vision and work towards achieving it. Strong leadership qualities backed by good communication skills helps teens excel at public speaking and also thrive in their future careers.

6.     Make better decisions

In early teenage years, a confused state of mind becomes the new normal. Additionally, having limited knowledge of how the world works and not knowing how to tell right from wrong can have a significant impact on a teen’s decision-making. In this phase, what their equally clueless friends think of a certain thing often takes the centre stage. However, this might not be the best approach. With strong communication skills, teenagers learn how to approach the right people, actively listen and ask clarifying questions, weigh the pros and cons of a decision and express their doubts and concerns freely. Moreover, communication skills also teaches them invaluable skills such as saying ‘no’ and taking calculated risks while making a decision.

7.     Preparation for future endeavours

In every area of a person’s life, they are bound to deal with people. Hence, it is vital to be a lifelong learner of people skills, starting from early teenage years. The reason why it is important to start early is because unlike the fully developed adult mind, the teenage mind is still a work in progress. Hence, it is easier to mould teenagers into picking up communication and people skills. Learning these skills early helps teenagers build a strong foundation for thriving in their future endeavours. Being a great team player at work, having a rich social life and having a healthy relationship with romantic partners is nothing but having strong communication skills in essence.

8.     Better understanding of the world and self

It is a common misconception that wisdom comes with age. But in reality, wisdom comes through being exposed to different life experiences and learning the necessary life skills. These things can be learned and experienced at any age. By working on their communication skills at an early age, teenagers learn how to pick up on social cues, read the room better and deal with people in ways that fosters mutual understanding. They learn about the grey areas and nuances of the world. Moreover, teenagers also learn how to protect themselves from potential bad experiences and bounce back with resilience if things go south. Introspection is also an important part of good communication.

Hence, teens learn not only about the world, but also gain heightened awareness about their feelings and get a better understanding of who they are. There are countless benefits of learning how to effectively communicate as a life skill. It’s like a gold mine that never ceases to amaze people with what it has to offer. Hence, parents need to take initiatives on empowering young teens with this golden skill. Enrolling teens in interactive groups, encouraging them to try out for public speaking and providing them with a safe space to voice out their feelings freely and build trust in the process are some ways to help them succeed with people and as people.

Keep learning, keep interacting, keep gossiping, keep expressing, keep talking, ......!!!!

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