Teenagers, tell your stories to make aware others!

  💕💕BETWEEN TEEN BIRTHDAYS.....💗💗

Teenagers please tell your stories to make aware others!

'BETWEEN TEEN BIRTHDAYS' 

 IS GOING TO BE A STORY OF

INDIAN TEENGE BOYS AND GIRLS 

SHARING THEIR TEEN LIFE EXPERIENCES.

They had gone through their PUBERTY period,
they faced GROWTH SPURT,
they were VERBALLY-PHYSICALLY & SEXUALLY abused,
they had MOOD swings,
they had EXAMs phobia,

they even passed through DEPRESSION phase,

they were BULLIED,

they had CRUSH and BREEEEEAAAAK--UPs........

they experienced their PHYSICAL development, EMOTIONAL development and REPRODUCTIVE SEXUAL development. they explored their HEALTH & HYGIENE issues..

they all are like you, millions around..

Dear Indian Boys, Girls, Fathers and Mothers,

Your experiences are valuable to understand the feelings, attitude, awareness and the way you handle the situation. It will help others in the form of the book. The identity of yours is not going to be revealed at any stage. So, send your experiences of changes occurred to you during puberty and then after till you became complete Adult, from maybe 10 years to 20 years.

Common to all persons (Boys, Girls, Fathers and Mothers):

1. Your first pimple/acne.

2. Your pubic hair development and first trimming/shaving.
3. Your sudden physical growth, height, weight, appearnce…
4. Your body hair changes.
5. Your opposite gender attraction (infatuation,crush,love).
6. Your experience of sexual abuse Any other experience.

7. Your parent-teenage relationship.

8. Your bullying in school and society.

9. Your depression and loneliness.

10. Your feeling and attitude on masturbation and orgasm.

11. Your verbal,physical, sexual abuse, incest, molest.

From Girls and Mothers :

1. Your first day of first menstruation.
2. Your breast bud and breast development
3. Your feelings, selection, purchase of first Bra
4. Your feeling of sanitary napkin/washable cloth pad

5. Your first pelvic examination

6. Your urinal & vaginal infection.

From Boys and Fathers :

1. Your first ejaculation/ wet dream
2. Your first shave of beard/mustache/pubic hair

3. Your urinal & skin infection.

Any other topics/subjects/issues bothered you during teenage.  

Your stories will help me to create further awareness among teenagers. Stories written by you on teenage emotions, also are requested. I invite your experiences with only age, no toher personal details required, I will weave them into stories with full confidentiality and annonimity. 

Dr Jyot Mohan,  IIM alumni & TEENAGE MENTOR

so submit now through 

email link : docotrjyot@gmail.com

Whatsapp Number : 9978613218

teensNparents: website:  https://sites.google.com/view/teensnparents/home

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TEENAGERS, BE AWARE! Tobacco uses are the most preventable cause of Cancer death.

TOBBACCO use is the most preventable cause of death.

TEENAGE where one would like to try out smoking... 

maybe due to PEER PRESSURE!

We ourselves invite painful(CANCER) death early in our life. Cigarette smoking is a major cause of cancers of the lung, larynx, oral cavity, pharynx and esophagus. It is also a contributing cause in the development of cancers of the other parts.  It is easier to detect when it is in the earliest, most treatable stage. If we, ourselves stop smoking and chewing tobacco; the entire tobacco epidemic would virtually disappear in next few generations. The difficulty is that it will take a conscious decision by the youth not to use tobacco in order to achieve the goal of healthy body with good looks. Stained teeth will not be a good to look at your face.

All forms of tobacco contain NICOTINE, it is a natural part of the tobacco leaf. Majority of TEENAGERS, who experiment with tobacco smoking or chewing, may become addictedslowly. In its pure form, nicotine is a strong poison. A small dose of it, injected directly into the bloodstream, can kill a person. Nicotine works on the brain and other parts of the nervous system. Nicotine is absorbed into the bloodstream through the smoke in a smoker's lungs or through the mucous membranes in the mouth for snuff/chew users. Their bloodstream picks it up and it is quickly pumped by the heart right to the brain-all within a few seconds. Nicotine makes the heart beat faster. This, in turn, increases the breathing rate and causes the body to use more oxygen. It can increase blood pressure.

Is your kid PASSIVE smoking with you?

When people smoke tobacco for the FIRST TIME, the nicotine may make them feel sick to their stomach and dizzy. As they use tobacco more often, the unpleasant feelings go away and the tobacco user gets addicted to the nicotine and grows dependent on the mild stimulant effects. Tobacco users find they need more nicotine-and more and more-in order to get the same feeling they received originally. At that point, the person is physically addicted and will only feel comfortable when nicotine is in their system. Of all addictive behaviors, cigarette smoking and Pan / Gutkha chewing, are the one most likely to become established during adolescence. Passive smoking is also dangerous for persons present in that nearby environment, particularly family members, children, friends....

PASSIVE SMOKING IS DANGEROUS TOO

Most tobacco users make several attempts before they successfully quit tobacco use. Withdrawal symptoms (both physical and psychological) can be very challenging and last longer. It may also extends to DRUG ADDICTION in future.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JtQR7t47oWo

Dr. JYOT, TEEN MENTOR

OMG! Crushes are like, the BEST!!! (But Also Super Weird)

OMG! Crushes are like, the BEST!!! 

(But Also Super Weird)

My heart goes.... ohh no....

Okay, so have you ever had just a glance at someone and your stomach does this FLIP FLOP thing? Or 

may be waiting in bus for just the arrival of that someone, may be you have written the name in your  

notebook a million times with little hearts around it? Yeah, that's called a CRUSH 💗💗💗,  and let 

me tell you, it's ROUGH. 

The Land of Butterfly Feelings 💕💕💕

Being a teenager is basically like living in a music video with way more pimples and homework.

Suddenly, EVERYONE seems super attractive, especially THAT person. You know, the one who

makes you forget your notebooks in your classroom and blush like a tomato. It's like your brain

is filled with butterflies having a rave party every time they're around.

Wait, This Isn't Exactly Like the Movies...

Here's the thing: crushes in movies are all sunshine and rainbows. But in real life, they can be

kinda...confusing. Suddenly you care WAY too much about what they think, even if they haven't

even noticed you. And don't even get me started on the stalking – I mean, FOLLOWING – them

on social media and freaking out if they don't like your post. (Don't do that, by the way. It's

creepy.)

Is This Even Love? 💘

Hold up! Before you write your wedding vows in glitter pen, let's take a step back. A crush is

intense, but it's usually based on how someone looks or seems from afar. Real love is about

knowing someone for who they are, even the annoying parts.

So What Do I Do About My Crush?

First, breathe!  DeeeeeeeeP breathe..... 

It's totally normal to feel this way. The HORMONES playing inside youR Body & Minds!!.....

Here are some tips:

● Talk it out: Don't bottle it up in your heart! Tell your Sibling or BFF(duh) or someone you trust (Mother, Bhabhi, Masi,..)...

● Get to know them: Maybe they're actually super nice! Or maybe they listen to Justin

Bieber unironically (shudder).

● Focus on you: Don't let your crush define you. Rock your hobbies, hang with your

squad, and be awesome!

Mom is the best friend!

The Bottom Line :

Crushes are a wild ride, you may not be able to stop, but they can teach you a lot about yourself and what you want in a future life partner (someone who DOESN'T listen to Justin Bieber, hopefully). Enjoy the butterflies,💕💕💕 but remember, YOU are the real star of your own teen movie. Daily look into your mirror and love that person in your mirror!

Enjoy your fantacy....... fly with feelings .... higher and higher....💗💗💗

Teen Antara

QUALITY OF TEACHING, SKILLS DEVELOPMENT NEED OF THE HOUR

 QUALITY OF TEACHING 

vs 

Expensive infrastructure, expensive uniforms, expensive textbooks....

Time has come to review the quality of teaching across India. 

One side government run-free panchayat schools and municipal schools, then the government aided private schools, missionary run convent schools, CBSE, ICSE, IB board schools...

The quality of teaching in expensive infrastructure, expensive uniforms and expensive textbooks also need review. Are these elite schools' students go for NEET JEE EXAMS coaching outside or not?

UNIFORMS wearing TIE, JACKET, BLAZER are not helping much in their brain develiopment for skills. Air-conditioned classroom are also not good for physical health in long run.

Shantiniketan model of Shri Rabindranath Tagore is an example for learning in India. Unfortunately we follow Maqulay model of school education even after 76 years of independence.... GURUKOOL model or say residential school away from main cities and near to nature to be thoght of.

Children need to expose to agriculture, dairy industries and village life also, to know where rual bharat live in and feed us.

How poor and middle class students will get grooming in Panchayat and municipal schools?

State boards, CBSE, ICSE, IB, government schools, Governmanet aided schools, private schools, all should have equal quality of teaching as such.

https://aachiglobalschool.com/blogs/8-different-types-of-education-boards-in-india-2024-cbse-caie-more/

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